It is funny the ways i am reminded of the point of why i do what i do, why i serve the way that i do. Funny ha ha, or funny ironic, or funny weird i haven’t quite decided. i will leave that determination up to you Ma’am. i know that i am never reminded by the moments that are easy. By the tasks i am set to do that i would have been doing anyway or do simply, naturally, like breathing. It always comes in the moments i am not expecting. It comes in the moments when the service is difficult…or perhaps difficult is too strong a word…maybe the right word is unexpected…or a surprise. Maybe it is a surprise because my mind has drifted off on things that i want or need to be doing or i am just going about a task with less intention than perhaps i should. And then suddenly there is a request sometimes simple, sometimes complex, and i feel a moment in my mind and body that feels almost like conflict but again i don’t think that is exactly the correct word. It is more like a sudden stop, like coming up short and quite suddenly being fully present in my life and in my choices and in my place.
i am not going to lie it is not always a pleasant sensation but in the end it is always a welcome one. It is of particular value when life is busy and things just seem to keep going on their way and i drift slightly, become complacent and less present in my daily tasks. In these moments i am allowed to breath into my intention and lean into my service and show up and do it. i won’t claim seemlessness when i am caught flat footed…i am considerably too transparent for that and i know the grinding of my gears shows though and i always regret that but i hope that i always show up and i always do it. Whatever it is…running out at night for ice cream, altering a favorite recipe until it is absolutely perfect and puts a true smile on the face of a Pretty Lady, or remembering to load the dishwasher, or hang up my jacket…it is a million tiny things, a million tiny actions that make up day to day service and even when i stumble and even when i don’t quite pull it all off i value and savor each moment of my service.
And i value most of all those moments that push me to be present, intentional, loving, and devoted. i value the surprises and the reminders and hope i live up to my duties and my word. This is not an easy path i have chosen but i know in some deep resonant place that it is the right path and i walk it with the right person.